By Harinie Thiagarajan:

A few weeks ago, I got a text from my friend saying that a guy, who had been my classmate during high school, had committed suicide. I seriously thought that this friend was playing a prank on me. Later I discovered the truth. He did commit suicide. I had always seen this guy to be one with great self-esteem and self-confidence. Then why out of nowhere should he take this decision. That was all people spoke for a couple of months. Everyone had only one question. The same question, to be exact. Why?

Now thinking about this issue of suicide, I did a little research and the results I got were too shocking. Statistics show that every five minutes, someone, somewhere in India, attempts suicide. This makes suicide the third major cause of death. Also, annually more than 1,00,000 people commit suicide in India, of which one-thirds are youth.  Diverse backgrounds, diverse goals and diverse opinions! But same decision!

Today, the youth in India form one of the most vulnerable groups, who on the one hand are expected to be the leaders, the backbone of tomorrow’s India, while on the other hand, are a browbeaten and baffled cluster. There is an imbalance between the youth population and the limited opportunities for admission in schools and colleges, and specifically in professional courses. This puts the youth under great pressure. First class and second class are hardly adequate results anymore.  Parents are helpless too, as both public and private institutions have caused economic burden to them. If you think getting admission is the toughest thing that youth can ever experience, rethink! Placements are another hell. You need to get everything right. And even after getting placed, the comparison in relation to the pay received, causes all the more pain. A person with the pleasure of working but with limited salary is certainly not welcome in this society. People have come to a point where they are ready to trade their work pleasure for money. Tough deadlines and hectic work atmosphere have taken the lives of many youth.

Friendships and relationships have also played equal parts in this gamble for life. Youth are too sensitive to sort any sort of relationship problem. The problem may be anything; fight with best friends, bitter misunderstanding with girlfriend/ boyfriend followed by an even bitter break-up, family issues with parents fighting over their lives or over financial issues. But the youth are greatly affected. They bundle up all these grievances in their hearts and eventually give their hearts a complete rest so they will never have to face the same, again.

I am blaming all. There are plenty of youth who have followed their heart to be what they wanted to be. But the fact that this suicide virus is taking away the lives of millions of youth is alarming. Something has to be done to cripple it. In battle between the thirst to have their dream life and the urge to fulfill the expectation of the society, many are shattered. While a very few regain their stand, the rest take the ultimate decision of ending their lives.

When they have the guts to face the pain of ending their lives for one moment, why aren’t they having the same guts for a moment longer to face the battle?  If a person is disturbed, all that has to be done is just talk. Words can do wonders, even help see beyond the mist. And you will never know what marvels are awaiting you!

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Harvey Specter
Posted at 3:33 pm April 4, 2013
sumith .k
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suicide is not a solution….. if u think it is plz talk 08552816669. seriously words can do wonders.pleaase talk its the only solution

Harvey Specter
Posted at 7:46 am March 22, 2013
swetha prasad
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exact reason

Harvey Specter
Posted at 12:29 pm June 25, 2012
Passion India Magazine
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the number of youth suicides may be lesser than the suicides of farmers but the intensity is equal. we need to save our dying futures.. http://www.passionindiamagazine.blogspot.in/2012/06/dying-spirits-into-youth-suicides.html

Harvey Specter
Posted at 10:25 pm February 22, 2012
Muthukishor K. Ganesan
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You may be right. A myth has been created among the parents, that only high scorers are blessed with highly payed jobs. Buts the fact is that the guys with good practical knowledge will be payed more. This makes the parents to pressurise their ward to score more and get a good job. because they have invested a lot and more than that they love their children to come out with flying colours.
Its the duty of the college to explain the truth to the parents. But actually what happens is that colleges bet only on the toppers leaving out the slow bloomers. which adds additional pressure on them. At one extent some thing inside their heart urges them to meet their end.

It may be easy saying”When they have the guts to face the pain of ending their lives for one moment, why aren’t they having the same guts for a moment longer to face the battle?” but the fact is that their mind doesnot think about anything else other than the problem which haunts them.

-Muthukishor K Ganesan

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