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“What If We Treated All Crimes Like We Treat Sexual Assault?”

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By Shreena Thakore: 

No Country For Women‘s digital campaign ‘What If We Treated All Crimes Like We Treat Sexual Assault?’  uses humour to illustrate the problematic responses to cases of sexual assault. Each piece satirizes a different type of victim-blaming by depicting how ridiculous these rhetorics would sound if applied to any other crime.

The most common responses to sexual assault broadly fall into 5 main categories:

1. Infantilising the victim and depicting the crime as a result of the victim’s naivete.

# 1 Infantilising the victim
2. Accusing the victim of false allegations and defaming them.

#2 Accusing The Victim of Lying
3. Criticising the victim for not living in a perpetual state of hyper-vigilance where they constantly expect and prepare for a crime to be committed against them.

#3 Blaming The Victim For Not Expecting The Crime (1)
4. Hijacking victimhood by dismissing the victim’s voice, shifting focus onto irrelevant entities and/or sympathizing with the perpetrator.

#4 Hijacking Victimhood
5. Appealing to sentiments of nationalism and diverting the conversation from the incident at hand.

#5 Defending National Pride

Such arguments trivialize sexual assault, delegitimize its significance, and/or straightaway dismiss it. They add to the existing stigma that survivors experience and prevent a critical and informed inspection of the crime.

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  1. Irate pirate

    Falsely accusing men of rape is a real and significant problem in India. Also false accusations of dowry. Imagine the thousands of innocent men, brothers and fathers imprisoned and shamed because a vengeful and wicked women. We must be as vigilant of women misusing the law as we should be of implementing laws for women’s safety.

    1. D Gill

      Yes and it is a tragedy that it happens but all laws are misused at some point by bad people, which is another subject all together. No need to bring this up constantly. Just as many people are accused of other crimes to which they are innocent. Why is this particular situation brought up constantly on pages talking about rape and victim blaming? You seem a lot more concerned by the few false allegations than the actual victims. And why? For someone to be charged with a crime, evidence has to be present. An allegation is harsh, yes, but no one gets CHARGED with a crime without EVIDENCE. But a victim has to live with what happened to them and the likelihood for justice is such cases is very minimal. So pls put your concern where it actually matters.

    2. Irate pirate

      I thought about bringing it up here because victims of false accusations are victims too. Who are stigmatised, lose their livelihoods, whose families go through unbelievable torture. It takes as long as a five years to clear up a name. Five years of no livelihood and shame. India is the only country where “rape on the promise of marriage ” is a bookable offence. Basically that’s consensual sex. Believe me, the media is always on the side of the alleged victim. No one want to hear the story of the boys and men. I’m a woman and abhor sexual violence and abuse. But I would first fight for gender neutral laws and a quick and efficient justice system. That would bring meaningful closure to victims of rape as well as victims of false accusations.

  2. ItsJustMe

    What if courts treated all cases like it treats rape cases

    Accuser – My son is dead and X did it
    Court – Mr X, Prove that you did not do it or life imprisonment / death penalty

    Accuser – My house was robbed and my neighbor did it, he took
    Court – Your neighbor is hereby ordered to compensate for the stolen items and an extra 5 Lakh as legal fees, he/she will serve 5 years in prison unless he/she can prove they did not do it

    Accuser – The Prime Minister of India is corrupt
    Court – Prime Minister is sentenced to 7 years in prison unless he can prove he is not corrupt

    (The very highly praised rape law is anti constitutional. It is no way fair to the accused, if he must prove he is innocent and not assumed innocent until proven so)

  3. Gagan

    Great job. This country needs some evil people like us who expose the truth hidden behind-the-scenes of Great Indian Culture. I myself has experienced the discussions of elderly people with pride on their faces when they taught a girl how to be a slave.

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Now as an MH Fellow with YKA, she’s expanding her impressive scope of work further by launching a campaign to facilitate the process of ensuring better menstrual health and SRH services for women residing in correctional homes in West Bengal. The campaign will entail an independent study to take stalk of the present conditions of MHM in correctional homes across the state and use its findings to build public support and political will to take the necessary action.

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The long-term aim of the campaign is to develop an open culture where menstruation is not treated as a taboo. The campaign also seeks to hold the schools accountable for their responsibilities as an important component in the implementation of MHM policies by making adequate sanitation infrastructure and knowledge of MHM available in school premises.

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Harshita is a psychologist and works to support people with mental health issues, particularly adolescents who are survivors of violence. Associated with the Azadi Foundation in UP, Harshita became an MHM Fellow with YKA, with the aim of promoting better menstrual health.

Her campaign #MeriMarzi aims to promote menstrual health and wellness, hygiene and facilities for female sex workers in UP. She says, “Knowledge about natural body processes is a very basic human right. And for individuals whose occupation is providing sexual services, it becomes even more important.”

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With YKA MHM Fellow Vineet, Sabna launched Menstratalk, a campaign that aims to put an end to period poverty and smash menstrual taboos in society. As a start, the campaign aims to begin conversations on menstrual health with five hundred adolescents and youth in Delhi through offline platforms, and through this community mobilise support to create Period Friendly Institutions out of educational institutes in the city.

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A student from Delhi School of Social work, Vineet is a part of Project Sakhi Saheli, an initiative by the students of Delhi school of Social Work to create awareness on Menstrual Health and combat Period Poverty. Along with MHM Action Fellow Sabna, Vineet launched Menstratalk, a campaign that aims to put an end to period poverty and smash menstrual taboos in society.

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Find out more about the campaign here.

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As a Youth Ki Awaaz Menstrual Health Fellow, Nitisha has started Let’s Talk Period, a campaign to mobilise young people to switch to sustainable period products. She says, “80 lakh women in Delhi use non-biodegradable sanitary products, generate 3000 tonnes of menstrual waste, that takes 500-800 years to decompose; which in turn contributes to the health issues of all menstruators, increased burden of waste management on the city and harmful living environment for all citizens.

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A former Assistant Secretary with the Ministry of Women and Child Development in West Bengal for three months, Lakshmi Bhavya has been championing the cause of menstrual hygiene in her district. By associating herself with the Lalana Campaign, a holistic menstrual hygiene awareness campaign which is conducted by the Anahat NGO, Lakshmi has been slowly breaking taboos when it comes to periods and menstrual hygiene.

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