Sit At Home? Hell No: The Amazing Story Of Aakriti And The Women Whose Lives She Changed

Posted on October 27, 2015 in Quit The Quo, Taboos, Women Empowerment

By Anugraha Hadke

‘Development’ is the new fancy term our leaders like to throw around, giving us big dreams of smart cities, unbeatable technology and a digital India. But at the end of the day, it’s small things, seemingly small efforts that are making a huge impact in people’s lives. They show that development is not a big, flashy showman with promises of distant dreams. It is a humble simpleton, making real contributions that have a direct and positive impact on people’s lives.

It was these simple things that motivated Aakriti Uttam to move to a rural district in Madhya Pradesh and become an initiator of social change. The district of Betul in M.P. has a rich tribal population, largely dominated by three communities: the Gonds, Korkus, and Yadavs. In this district of over 1.5 million people, are eight Tehsils, covering over 1300 villages.

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With the warmth Aakriti received from the residents of these villages, it took her no time to settle into a new lifestyle and culture and start contributing to growth at the grass roots. One of the most remarkable change that she was a part of was the development of the women’s collectives.

She proudly remembers one such story of Rajni Bai, a 45-year-old daily wage labourer, who lived in the village of Gyraspur. The money that Rajni Bai earned was enough to sustain her, but for years she had been facing abuse from her alcoholic younger brother who would take away her savings. Her brother’s wife was also subjected to similar abuse.

All it took to solve Rajni Bai’s problem was the setting up of a Village Level Committee (VLC) that Aakriti was an integral part of. Now the women of the village are so organised and united, that if Rajni Bai so much as gets into a small quarrel, a group gathers almost instantaneously to her aid. In a village not so far away, another VLC gathered up the women of Baghwad to help a young woman who was being threatened by a wealthy man from another village.

Self Help Groups (SHGs), which Aakriti helped set up in several groups in Betul, are set up to encourage mutual support and provide a common space to solve community problems. She recalls how much the villagers could relate to these groups. “It was the feeling of taking out time for themselves, coming out of their homes, keeping aside household work and meeting with SHG members, which motivated them to come for the meetings every week,” she explains.

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The simple act of gathering the SHGs of villages has not only helped build a stronger community, it has empowered its women into taking up a stronger position in society. These women have realised that together, they can tackle problems that they wouldn’t have had the courage to face alone.

Another effort, in the form of a gender equality program, encouraged the women of Betul to fight against the gender discrimination they have faced for decades. Instead of sitting at home as they were told to, they actively participated in the Panchayat elections. From carefully selecting candidates, to aggressively campaigning for them, no stone was left unturned. A group of women even kept watch during the nights to ensure that no bribes were made in the villages.

These collectives have given the women of Betul district higher aspirations in life; they are politically motivated, socially more aware. They now realise the importance of education and make regular checks at village schools to ensure the presence of teachers, and the quality of mid-day meals.

By simply bringing the women of the villages together and helping them understand the importance of growing together as a community, Aakriti was able to provide them with the confidence to be strong, opinionated, and active members of their communities, ready to take on new challenges, together. “Every time the community learnt something new, it seemed like I was learning something new. Their progress and hurdles seemed like my progress and hurdles,” she says, knowing that this experience has helped her grow professionally, as well as personally.

Like Aakriti, 351 PRADAN professionals work directly with around 3.7 lakh families in 5700 remote villages spread across 39 poorest districts of India. PRADAN offers a one year experiential learning programme for young professionals to explore and contribute towards socio – economic change in rural India.

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