I would like to start with a quote of albert einstein which once have said that “Everybody is a genius but if you judge the fish by its ability to climb a tree it will live its whole life believing that its stupid ”
At the time of birth of a child , we celebrate the auspicious occasion with extreme joy and putting our heart into the celebration yet we are unable to visualize as he grows our expectation also grows with it . As the time passes he grew up and try to imitate the thing from his background . The utmost impact in his characteristics is marked by his parents attitude and the way they react to his actions . I remembered a situation from my childhood where i was given a homework to write one page on mother and i wrote few things which i was able to comprehend it at that time . But once i wrote my mother randomly came up and checked as it was very candid to an extent . But my mother tore it apart and i was made to write what she recited to me .Now ,to show the demerits of my parents are not my concern but to show every move they took for the building my character which eventually provided me the better picture of how impactful those negative words can be . Even though they are not exactly said to harm me .
The parents won’t realize how those negative talks were becoming the essential part of my life and were bound to make it turned into reality because these kind words are from my creators . These words are so impactful and repeatedly said to me so that i shaped my life around it and believing that “sharma Ji’s son is better then because he is securing 85% in 7th standard and i am not “. Recently a study in Stanford university showed that if we talk rudely with the negative attitude and dominating nature to our child in a week for 50 minUtes. So in a year he turned up to 40% more negative in his character which eventually leads to the inclination oh him towards less productive result .
The talks ,approach , and behaviour of our parents have the greatest impact in our life and if it is not nurtured in a right manner it will definately being ending up with spoiling our children’s life, not today but definately some day .