I got out of a 2 year long relationship and it has left me with some serious complications in my mind. This relationship made me realise how being loyal and honest or even giving your 100% isn’t enough when its the wrong relationship. Allow me to tell you how.
1. THE MIND GAME
Mind games kill a relationship and you are dumb if you think we won’t understand your games. You know what game am talking about, the one where you call him and he doesn’t pick up at first while you can clearly see his ignorant ass online on facebook and viewing your snap story just 2 minutes ago. Then after 7 hours of waiting he finally decides to call you back. All this just to show his importance and for some petty self validation. *sigh* pitty.
2. THE EGO +LOW KEY JEALOUSY
remember that time when you told him your boss appreciated your hard work at office? And all he said was “hmm nice” and then quickly switched onto telling you how hot his new boss was and how fond she is of him? Or just anytime when you told him about your accomplishments and he just had to rain over your parade. Almost as if he cannot accept you doing something on your own and succeeding. Yeah. People who love you don’t do that. People in love will always celebrate with you.
3. PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH
He always wants you to keep in touch when you are on your girls night out and if you miss out on texting him he goes on a 180degree flip but when it comes to his guys night out, he’ll probably text you once before he leaves and 8 hours later at 6am that he is home. He will want your Facebook id and password but when you ask him for his he will come up with excuses like “babe all my accounts have the same passwords:/”. Try asking him why this prejudice and you’ll realise how fucked up he is when he says “yaar aap pyaar ka punchnama wali girlfriend jaise ho”. Really?
4. NEVER EVER EVER EVER TAKING THE BLAME
This is going to be short. You know its not destined to be when he cannot, just can absolutely not accept when he is wrong. Own up to your mistakes if you make them. If anything, it’ll only make it easier for the both of you.
Are you google? No. Am i google? No.
Do you know something i dont ? Yes. Do i know something you dont? Yes.
Then lets share the knowledge and grow together?
Dont belittle guys, educate! This doesn’t just limit to a romantic relationship, share what you have with everyone. You dont know the conspiracy theories behind the 9/11 attacks? You wanna know? Come to me we’ll have gala time! I dont know how CG work, you knoW? COME TEACH ME.
Life is too short to hold on to your ego and act like a wannabe know it all. Relax swallow your pride. Brighten up a bit.
6. HATING YOUR FRIENDS WHILE HIS FRIENDS ARE THE BEST
“why are you always with your friends?”
Because they are there for me to fall back on when you leave or cancel on me last minute? 🙂
“Omg your friends are so ugly”
1) I dont make friendships based on looks. Not that shallow of a person.
2) One of my best friend is a part time model and another one won a beauty pageant. Please stop with your weak ass ego
“All your guy friends want to fuck you”
is that why they call me their “nigga” ? Hmmm.
Meanwhile all his friends are cheating on their girlfriends and he himself bitches about them. Pathetic. May god bless you with some brains someday. Amen.
Wow writing this I realised what a perfect piece of shit i was putting up with. Anyway these are just a few of the many things that lead to the doom of a beautiful relationship. There is enough negativity in this world, bring in some positivity.
*** THIS IS NOT A MALE BASHING ARTICLE I HAVE A LOT OF GUY FRIENDS AND NOT ALL OF THEM ARE LIKE THAT. THANKYOU***