Yes, I am a slut and a whore, and I am not ashamed

Posted by Hardik Lashkari
October 28, 2017

Self-Published

Do prostitute and slut mean same? Is it so easy to sleep with a slut or a whore? Think again.

How oxford dictionary defines a prostitute – 

Let’s see how slut has been defined –

Oxford Dictionary – 

Wikipedia – 

Urban Dictionary – 

Isn’t slut a very insulting term? And let’s not blame the men. More often, slut is a term used by women to define other women.

How do you become a slut?

  1. Being sexually active before marriage –

“She’s not a virgin? She must be a slut.”

2. If she dresses challengingly –

“Showing off her body like that, her clothes are so slutty.”

3. If she lives with a guy –

“No respectable girl lives with boys.”

4. If a girl is a lesbian –

“She’s into women? Stay away from her. ”

5. Being a divorcee –

“She must be easy.”

6. If a girl has an one night stand –

“She just met him, and she already is sleeping with him? Slut”

7. If she becomes a friends with benefits –

“How can you sleep with someone who’s not your boyfriend? That’s so slutty.”

8. If she dated many guys –

“She’s had many boyfriends. She’s a big slut.”

9. If she laughs at dirty jokes –

“She likes it when guys talk dirty. Such a slut!”

10. If she is friends with more guys and less girls –

“Why can’t she hangout with girls? Desperate slut.”

11. If she comes home late –

“She is a slut who was whoring around.”

12. If she parties hard –

“She wants it. Slut!”

13. If she tattoos her body –

“Just look at her tattoos and piercings. That’s definitely a slut.”

14. If she swears or even knows swear words –

“Why are you talking like a slut?”

15. If she invites guy friends to her home –

“She has guys over all the time. What a slut!”

16. If she drinks and smokes –

“Slut is drinking and smoking.”

17. If she applies red lipstick –

“She wears red lipstick. It’s so slutty.”

18. If she flirts –

“Look at her body language. She’s getting slutty with them.”

19. If she watches porn – 

“Why do you want to watch porn? Are you a slut.”

20. If she is into a profession of modelling or airhosting or hospitality – 

“All models are slut.”

Yeah, by now, I have understood what makes me a slut.

Being independent makes me a slut.

Being popular makes me a slut. Feeling confident about my body makes me a slut. Expressing myself and living the life freely makes me a slut. 

Being born as a woman makes me a slut.

In that case, yes I am a slut.

And I don’t regret being a slut.

I am proud of being called a slut.

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