This post has been self-published on Youth Ki Awaaz by Gunja Kapoor. Just like them, anyone can publish on Youth Ki Awaaz.

I am A Hindu, And I don’t Hate Others

More from Gunja Kapoor

As 2017 draws to a grim end, both my nation and I have lost more than what we had ever precedented. While my nation lost its countrymen to cow vigilantism, communal hatred, debt ridden poverty, poor healthcare, floods, and hunger, I lost faith of those, whose faith is not same as mine. My losses don’t end there. When I refused to side with the miscreants, I lost the faith of those too, whose faith was same as mine.

There is little to disprove that India is a melting pot of diverse culture and beliefs, which have coexisted and thrived on the back of impregnable levels of acceptance. However, the status quo was challenged repeatedly, with jibes, comments and actions from poster boys, that have stoked emotions which eventually had incendiary consequences.

Binary Faith

It is usual for us to watch politicians unleash the spectre of religion, and allow it to overshadow all pertinent matters. All of them without exception, possess incredible hunger for power, and essay every possible promise or tactic to lure the voter to their side.

Unfortunately, in 2017, this trend caught up with the masses. I have never felt so torn between loyalty and righteousness. When Pehlu Khan was lynched in Alwar and I expressed my anguish, I was immediately dubbed as a Hindu who did not care enough about cows. Obviously, my stand on no crime justified lynching – fell on deaf ears. When I displayed similar emotional response to brutal killing of a young RSS worker in Kerala, I was framed for being a right-wing extremist.

When I criticise the ruling dispensation, am classified as a ‘Congressi’, and when I support them am called a ‘bhakt’. Why do I have to be a subservient slave of a camp, to chide the other one? I have a scientific temper, and I will question the merit of every action that defeats my comprehension.

Can I not denounce actions of those who share my ideology, or is blind-faith the new normal?

Tolerant Faith

To set the record straight, historically, Indians don’t ‘tolerate’; they either embrace you, or successfully vanquish you. India has a penchant for ousting, than tolerating. Be it the tyrannical British Raj, corrupt Governments, inept leaders, compromised sportsmen or trite actors – I think that if Indians don’t embrace it, they reject it. So, this entire squabble about being tolerant to faiths is fundamentally incorrect. Indians have disposed to their multiform nation and embraced its assorted texture, than borne with the heterogeneity on account of lack of options otherwise.

The nation has been forced to tolerate this debate on tolerance, for it serves those who have ossified themselves into impermeable layers of intolerance, prejudice and adamant extremism.

Can I not embrace multiple faiths, or is singularity of faith the new normal?

Suspecting Faith

I remember watching the melodramatic “My Name is Khan”, and the cinema hall was engulfed by a deafening silence, when the very charming protagonist says, “My name is Khan, and I am not a terrorist.” The character of Rizwan Khan had forced the audience to rethink, rebuke and repudiate their biases. Today, I stand on a familiar turf – I am a Hindu, and I don’t hate others.

In a casual conversation, in September, 2017, I asked my Muslim friend, if he would bring kebabs from Lucknow to Delhi. He said, “I have stopped carrying non-vegetarian food with me.” Fear was palpable, and I couldn’t allay it. Rampant murders of citizens on pretext of abstract suspicion and allegations have eroded the faith we enjoyed of our fellow citizens. I have to repeatedly prove to my minority friends that I don’t support human carnage; to my community that I am not a traitor. Dipping levels of mutual trust soaring suspicion have inundated my nation. Heated arguments on social media reflect the anger and despair, we are suffering from. We are aware that the endemic of apprehension and disquiet is quietly consuming our very existence. Sadly, we are conceding, for it satisfies our self-hood and false supremacy of singularity. The test of faith is a failing one, for we have deep seated suspicion that is overriding our pragmatism.

I honestly don’t know what the Ayodhya verdict will be. What I do know is, if I cheer for the mandir, I will annoy my own, if I cheer for the masjid, I will still annoy my own. I am fighting a losing battle, with two resolute armies of my own on both sides. I wonder, what Krishna would tell me in this war.

Can I not stand for my own, or is faith the fulcrum of my relationships?

You must be to comment.

More from Gunja Kapoor

Similar Posts

By Soumita Sen

By Imran Khan

By Shruti Jairaj Singh

Wondering what to write about?

Here are some topics to get you started

Share your details to download the report.

We promise not to spam or send irrelevant information.

Share your details to download the report.

We promise not to spam or send irrelevant information.

An ambassador and trained facilitator under Eco Femme (a social enterprise working towards menstrual health in south India), Sanjina is also an active member of the MHM Collective- India and Menstrual Health Alliance- India. She has conducted Menstrual Health sessions in multiple government schools adopted by Rotary District 3240 as part of their WinS project in rural Bengal. She has also delivered training of trainers on SRHR, gender, sexuality and Menstruation for Tomorrow’s Foundation, Vikramshila Education Resource Society, Nirdhan trust and Micro Finance, Tollygunj Women In Need, Paint It Red in Kolkata.

Now as an MH Fellow with YKA, she’s expanding her impressive scope of work further by launching a campaign to facilitate the process of ensuring better menstrual health and SRH services for women residing in correctional homes in West Bengal. The campaign will entail an independent study to take stalk of the present conditions of MHM in correctional homes across the state and use its findings to build public support and political will to take the necessary action.

Saurabh has been associated with YKA as a user and has consistently been writing on the issue MHM and its intersectionality with other issues in the society. Now as an MHM Fellow with YKA, he’s launched the Right to Period campaign, which aims to ensure proper execution of MHM guidelines in Delhi’s schools.

The long-term aim of the campaign is to develop an open culture where menstruation is not treated as a taboo. The campaign also seeks to hold the schools accountable for their responsibilities as an important component in the implementation of MHM policies by making adequate sanitation infrastructure and knowledge of MHM available in school premises.

Read more about his campaign.

Harshita is a psychologist and works to support people with mental health issues, particularly adolescents who are survivors of violence. Associated with the Azadi Foundation in UP, Harshita became an MHM Fellow with YKA, with the aim of promoting better menstrual health.

Her campaign #MeriMarzi aims to promote menstrual health and wellness, hygiene and facilities for female sex workers in UP. She says, “Knowledge about natural body processes is a very basic human right. And for individuals whose occupation is providing sexual services, it becomes even more important.”

Meri Marzi aims to ensure sensitised, non-discriminatory health workers for the needs of female sex workers in the Suraksha Clinics under the UPSACS (Uttar Pradesh State AIDS Control Society) program by creating more dialogues and garnering public support for the cause of sex workers’ menstrual rights. The campaign will also ensure interventions with sex workers to clear misconceptions around overall hygiene management to ensure that results flow both ways.

Read more about her campaign.

MH Fellow Sabna comes with significant experience working with a range of development issues. A co-founder of Project Sakhi Saheli, which aims to combat period poverty and break menstrual taboos, Sabna has, in the past, worked on the issue of menstruation in urban slums of Delhi with women and adolescent girls. She and her team also released MenstraBook, with menstrastories and organised Menstra Tlk in the Delhi School of Social Work to create more conversations on menstruation.

With YKA MHM Fellow Vineet, Sabna launched Menstratalk, a campaign that aims to put an end to period poverty and smash menstrual taboos in society. As a start, the campaign aims to begin conversations on menstrual health with five hundred adolescents and youth in Delhi through offline platforms, and through this community mobilise support to create Period Friendly Institutions out of educational institutes in the city.

Read more about her campaign. 

A student from Delhi School of Social work, Vineet is a part of Project Sakhi Saheli, an initiative by the students of Delhi school of Social Work to create awareness on Menstrual Health and combat Period Poverty. Along with MHM Action Fellow Sabna, Vineet launched Menstratalk, a campaign that aims to put an end to period poverty and smash menstrual taboos in society.

As a start, the campaign aims to begin conversations on menstrual health with five hundred adolescents and youth in Delhi through offline platforms, and through this community mobilise support to create Period Friendly Institutions out of educational institutes in the city.

Find out more about the campaign here.

A native of Bhagalpur district – Bihar, Shalini Jha believes in equal rights for all genders and wants to work for a gender-equal and just society. In the past she’s had a year-long association as a community leader with Haiyya: Organise for Action’s Health Over Stigma campaign. She’s pursuing a Master’s in Literature with Ambedkar University, Delhi and as an MHM Fellow with YKA, recently launched ‘Project अल्हड़ (Alharh)’.

She says, “Bihar is ranked the lowest in India’s SDG Index 2019 for India. Hygienic and comfortable menstruation is a basic human right and sustainable development cannot be ensured if menstruators are deprived of their basic rights.” Project अल्हड़ (Alharh) aims to create a robust sensitised community in Bhagalpur to collectively spread awareness, break the taboo, debunk myths and initiate fearless conversations around menstruation. The campaign aims to reach at least 6000 adolescent girls from government and private schools in Baghalpur district in 2020.

Read more about the campaign here.

A psychologist and co-founder of a mental health NGO called Customize Cognition, Ritika forayed into the space of menstrual health and hygiene, sexual and reproductive healthcare and rights and gender equality as an MHM Fellow with YKA. She says, “The experience of working on MHM/SRHR and gender equality has been an enriching and eye-opening experience. I have learned what’s beneath the surface of the issue, be it awareness, lack of resources or disregard for trans men, who also menstruate.”

The Transmen-ses campaign aims to tackle the issue of silence and disregard for trans men’s menstruation needs, by mobilising gender sensitive health professionals and gender neutral restrooms in Lucknow.

Read more about the campaign here.

A Computer Science engineer by education, Nitisha started her career in the corporate sector, before realising she wanted to work in the development and social justice space. Since then, she has worked with Teach For India and Care India and is from the founding batch of Indian School of Development Management (ISDM), a one of its kind organisation creating leaders for the development sector through its experiential learning post graduate program.

As a Youth Ki Awaaz Menstrual Health Fellow, Nitisha has started Let’s Talk Period, a campaign to mobilise young people to switch to sustainable period products. She says, “80 lakh women in Delhi use non-biodegradable sanitary products, generate 3000 tonnes of menstrual waste, that takes 500-800 years to decompose; which in turn contributes to the health issues of all menstruators, increased burden of waste management on the city and harmful living environment for all citizens.

Let’s Talk Period aims to change this by

Find out more about her campaign here.

Share your details to download the report.

We promise not to spam or send irrelevant information.

A former Assistant Secretary with the Ministry of Women and Child Development in West Bengal for three months, Lakshmi Bhavya has been championing the cause of menstrual hygiene in her district. By associating herself with the Lalana Campaign, a holistic menstrual hygiene awareness campaign which is conducted by the Anahat NGO, Lakshmi has been slowly breaking taboos when it comes to periods and menstrual hygiene.

A Gender Rights Activist working with the tribal and marginalized communities in india, Srilekha is a PhD scholar working on understanding body and sexuality among tribal girls, to fill the gaps in research around indigenous women and their stories. Srilekha has worked extensively at the grassroots level with community based organisations, through several advocacy initiatives around Gender, Mental Health, Menstrual Hygiene and Sexual and Reproductive Health Rights (SRHR) for the indigenous in Jharkhand, over the last 6 years.

Srilekha has also contributed to sustainable livelihood projects and legal aid programs for survivors of sex trafficking. She has been conducting research based programs on maternal health, mental health, gender based violence, sex and sexuality. Her interest lies in conducting workshops for young people on life skills, feminism, gender and sexuality, trauma, resilience and interpersonal relationships.

A Guwahati-based college student pursuing her Masters in Tata Institute of Social Sciences, Bidisha started the #BleedwithDignity campaign on the technology platform, demanding that the Government of Assam install
biodegradable sanitary pad vending machines in all government schools across the state. Her petition on has already gathered support from over 90000 people and continues to grow.

Bidisha was selected in’s flagship program ‘She Creates Change’ having run successful online advocacy
campaigns, which were widely recognised. Through the #BleedwithDignity campaign; she organised and celebrated World Menstrual Hygiene Day, 2019 in Guwahati, Assam by hosting a wall mural by collaborating with local organisations. The initiative was widely covered by national and local media, and the mural was later inaugurated by the event’s chief guest Commissioner of Guwahati Municipal Corporation (GMC) Debeswar Malakar, IAS.

Sign up for the Youth Ki Awaaz Prime Ministerial Brief below