Love.
Love is everywhere.
So, there is no opposite to Love.
Yes but there is Hate and Hate is never the opposite of Love…
Hate is actually the opposite of Lust.
So, the question is:
What have you fallen in…Love or Lust?
Mostly, people confuse two concepts of love and expression of love that is lust.. together whereas there’s a cosmic difference in both of these phenomenons…It’s very common that men express their love but it’s very rare that they feel the same.It’s not like men can’t love but they can’t do it more than women. A man’s love is LUST.But a woman rename it as LOVE and start loving back the person irrationally. Women expect the same feelings they feel for men ,from them.And men do get these feelings sometimes but their way of expression is just vulnerable or unacceptable..
Bloody women,smart enough but lacked somewhere, get mistaken or can’t figure out that it’s the affection she herself built and not what she got in return.
And sometimes women end up doing what she doesn’t want to or is not ready for.
Women often do not like commitment not because she wants independence but because she wants to be her partners’ best friend or the coffee to his milk or be her man’s support system and not just a weekend girlfriend or his entertainment.But,on the contrary,men are likely to need a commitment not because they can’t resist themselves from expressing their love but because they can’t resist themselves..
It is true that men break down when left alone, rejected or after a divorce.But it’s not always because they loved her harder..it can be because of the egoistic fall or maybe because of his loss as he wanted to feel special like she made him feel but never did the same..
It is easy to respect a woman not by only pulling her chair in public but by not letting her down even in private.It is a bit difficult to care for a woman not just about her health but to care about her own dreams, her feelings,her situations,her status.But,it is most difficult to love a woman like she loves you..
~Riddhi Mehta ✍
This is the topic for research in psychology nowadays,so tried to jot my thoughts on it..