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How Dubai’s Princess Latifa Fought And Lost The Battle Against Patriarchy

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Women – wherever and whoever they are – have fought over the years never to conform to what sexism wanted out of them. Rather, we have gone out to have an equal say for our body and mind, which does make scare a lot of people about some kind of retaliation. But, that was never the point of equality – and to be sexist towards any gender is not something that’s looked upon in any rule-book of feminism.

Being told what, when, why and how to do so many things – we, as Indians, are not that far from the Arabs when it comes to women’s right. I was born in such a family – and I know what it means to be born with the unrealistic standards and expectations of a conservative and religious family, at a time when women around the world are evolving into great personalities in so many fields, and accomplishing so much.

However, with rape cases like Nirbhaya’s, and the ones in Unnao and Kathua, we have come to the realisation that the road to equality is indeed long with many struggles that need to be overcome by our so-called modern society – and the reason for this is?

Relevantly, we can add Princess Latifa to this list as well. She was not Indian, but she did have something to do with the Indian coast in her last known days.

Though it’s not making much of an international headline, the story about the miserable and unfortunate princess is still there on the internet thanks to the efforts of certain news agencies. Sheika Latifa Al Maktoum, one of the daughters of Sheikh Mohammed Bin Rashid Al Maktoum, the Emirati ruler of Dubai, with his lesser-known and older of the six wives, tried to run away and escape from the hardcore patriarchal society with its strict Sharia laws dictating day-to-day life. The UAE is the kind of a place where fighting for basic rights is a struggle. It’s also been known to violate human rights, even though the situation is probably not as bad as their neighbour, Saudi Arabia, where women got the right to vote in 2015 – and even more recently, to drive. The news of her escape has been kept under the sheets to avoid us from seeing the dirty reality of what happens in these rich and powerful Arab countries.

India played the role of the saviour quite nicely without bringing up the Islam issue, while fighting over one of the worst cases communal rape around the same time. No, they didn’t save the abused and tortured princess, who had already contacted lawyers and begged for political asylum. They only repaired their reputation and relationship with the the UAE, no matter how ‘Islamic’ they are. India captured the ship, fired the guns and her fate remains unknown – probably to be eventually forgotten, and according to many, silenced forever.

I have not forgotten you, Princess Latifa, and I will remember you until the day I die as your story is as important as mine and the rest of the world. You hail from a rich, powerful and influential monarchist family with all the restrictions and rules to obey in an Islamic country. And it must have been very difficult to even breathe in such an atmosphere. I feel sorry for you and all those who have to suffer, no matter how rich, old, young or poor they are. Did being rich and young help her escape from the evils of patriarchy and age-old laws and rules that withhold women from existing as equals in an advanced and modern society?

The video has been released by Escape from Dubai on YouTube, where you can watch and listen to her say the ‘final words’, her eyes seeing and realising what awaits her very well. It was very scary and horrifying for me to go through the video, as she’s hardly a couple of years older than me. What exactly is happening, the more we advance into a futuristic era ushered by science and technology? How long is it going to be until we are actually equal, no matter what? When is this maddening devilry going to end?

I am making this video because this could be the last video I make. If I don’t make it out, I hope that some change will come.” – Sheika Latifa Al Maktoum, Princess of UAE.

Update: According to a report on NDTV, a source close to the Dubai government has said that Princess Latifa has now been ‘brought back’ to the UAE.

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Now as an MH Fellow with YKA, she’s expanding her impressive scope of work further by launching a campaign to facilitate the process of ensuring better menstrual health and SRH services for women residing in correctional homes in West Bengal. The campaign will entail an independent study to take stalk of the present conditions of MHM in correctional homes across the state and use its findings to build public support and political will to take the necessary action.

Saurabh has been associated with YKA as a user and has consistently been writing on the issue MHM and its intersectionality with other issues in the society. Now as an MHM Fellow with YKA, he’s launched the Right to Period campaign, which aims to ensure proper execution of MHM guidelines in Delhi’s schools.

The long-term aim of the campaign is to develop an open culture where menstruation is not treated as a taboo. The campaign also seeks to hold the schools accountable for their responsibilities as an important component in the implementation of MHM policies by making adequate sanitation infrastructure and knowledge of MHM available in school premises.

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Harshita is a psychologist and works to support people with mental health issues, particularly adolescents who are survivors of violence. Associated with the Azadi Foundation in UP, Harshita became an MHM Fellow with YKA, with the aim of promoting better menstrual health.

Her campaign #MeriMarzi aims to promote menstrual health and wellness, hygiene and facilities for female sex workers in UP. She says, “Knowledge about natural body processes is a very basic human right. And for individuals whose occupation is providing sexual services, it becomes even more important.”

Meri Marzi aims to ensure sensitised, non-discriminatory health workers for the needs of female sex workers in the Suraksha Clinics under the UPSACS (Uttar Pradesh State AIDS Control Society) program by creating more dialogues and garnering public support for the cause of sex workers’ menstrual rights. The campaign will also ensure interventions with sex workers to clear misconceptions around overall hygiene management to ensure that results flow both ways.

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MH Fellow Sabna comes with significant experience working with a range of development issues. A co-founder of Project Sakhi Saheli, which aims to combat period poverty and break menstrual taboos, Sabna has, in the past, worked on the issue of menstruation in urban slums of Delhi with women and adolescent girls. She and her team also released MenstraBook, with menstrastories and organised Menstra Tlk in the Delhi School of Social Work to create more conversations on menstruation.

With YKA MHM Fellow Vineet, Sabna launched Menstratalk, a campaign that aims to put an end to period poverty and smash menstrual taboos in society. As a start, the campaign aims to begin conversations on menstrual health with five hundred adolescents and youth in Delhi through offline platforms, and through this community mobilise support to create Period Friendly Institutions out of educational institutes in the city.

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A student from Delhi School of Social work, Vineet is a part of Project Sakhi Saheli, an initiative by the students of Delhi school of Social Work to create awareness on Menstrual Health and combat Period Poverty. Along with MHM Action Fellow Sabna, Vineet launched Menstratalk, a campaign that aims to put an end to period poverty and smash menstrual taboos in society.

As a start, the campaign aims to begin conversations on menstrual health with five hundred adolescents and youth in Delhi through offline platforms, and through this community mobilise support to create Period Friendly Institutions out of educational institutes in the city.

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She says, “Bihar is ranked the lowest in India’s SDG Index 2019 for India. Hygienic and comfortable menstruation is a basic human right and sustainable development cannot be ensured if menstruators are deprived of their basic rights.” Project अल्हड़ (Alharh) aims to create a robust sensitised community in Bhagalpur to collectively spread awareness, break the taboo, debunk myths and initiate fearless conversations around menstruation. The campaign aims to reach at least 6000 adolescent girls from government and private schools in Baghalpur district in 2020.

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A psychologist and co-founder of a mental health NGO called Customize Cognition, Ritika forayed into the space of menstrual health and hygiene, sexual and reproductive healthcare and rights and gender equality as an MHM Fellow with YKA. She says, “The experience of working on MHM/SRHR and gender equality has been an enriching and eye-opening experience. I have learned what’s beneath the surface of the issue, be it awareness, lack of resources or disregard for trans men, who also menstruate.”

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As a Youth Ki Awaaz Menstrual Health Fellow, Nitisha has started Let’s Talk Period, a campaign to mobilise young people to switch to sustainable period products. She says, “80 lakh women in Delhi use non-biodegradable sanitary products, generate 3000 tonnes of menstrual waste, that takes 500-800 years to decompose; which in turn contributes to the health issues of all menstruators, increased burden of waste management on the city and harmful living environment for all citizens.

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A former Assistant Secretary with the Ministry of Women and Child Development in West Bengal for three months, Lakshmi Bhavya has been championing the cause of menstrual hygiene in her district. By associating herself with the Lalana Campaign, a holistic menstrual hygiene awareness campaign which is conducted by the Anahat NGO, Lakshmi has been slowly breaking taboos when it comes to periods and menstrual hygiene.

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A Guwahati-based college student pursuing her Masters in Tata Institute of Social Sciences, Bidisha started the #BleedwithDignity campaign on the technology platform, demanding that the Government of Assam install
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