- Expecting chivalry, really
So you call yourself a feminist and still expect the male gender to pull out your chairs, open the car door etc.Well dear you are on a one way road which shouts out equality and this really does not work out together. 
- Movies
And we live in a place where movies like naam shabana and akira goes unnoticed but lipstick under my burkha creates a cult following, well surprise surprise even if a normal indian aged male lusts about a girl half her age it won’t be considered normal so it wasn’t only usha parmar suffering
- 3. #metoo
Why is it considered that it is only one gender that suffer, there have been incidents where men have faced sexual harassments and domestic violence, isn’t it time we consider both the genders and stop creating buzz about one side of the problem. 
- 4. Awards and recognition
There our uncountable award shows and recognition which only rewards the work of a women, as inspiring as this is but also men has to face the competition with both sides whereas women get special accredited sets for them.
- 5. Using it to get noticed.
Feminism hitted us hard with newspapers and media, everyone calls themselves a feminist today but isn’t it time to stop the candle marches and protest and start working really hard to finally bring a change. 
