The true essence of a woman lies in her attributes of who she is as a person, what she has to offer herself and to the people around her. This makes for the true beauty of a woman. For many women it can be hard to truly appreciate who they are, they will not accept the fact that there is so much to be appreciated about themselves and yet it is all because of what they could be holding against themselves from their past that makes them feel unworthy of appreciation, this is best for you to let go it happened, but do not believe for a moment that you should hold it against yourself forever, no doubt you have learned what you were meant to learn from the experience so do let go, and allow yourself to appreciate the real you of today!Be proud of yourself that you have come so far within yourself, for many women this is not valued and for others it is, as we are so unique we will all come from different spaces within ourselves and that is ok. For many women they will focus on their outer as creating the perfect essence of a woman, that is all fine, of course beauty on the outside is to be greatly admired, and those that have been blessed with beautiful features, and the perfect figures all the more power to you, there is nothing wrong with physical beauty, the big concern is the “inner beauty” which is soul deep, if there is no depth to it then regardless how beautiful you are on the outside it will fade rapidly into insignificance if you do not have that inner beauty. There are so many such beautiful soul deep women that physically may not be that attractive but its that inner that shines onto the outer where they supersede the outer with the inner and this is where the true beauty will shine through for all to see.
As it is rightly said –
“The beauty of a woman
is not in the clothes she wears
nor the figure she carries
or the way she combs her hair
The beauty of a woman will be
seen in her eyes because that
is the doorway to her heart
the place where love resides”.