“My existence on this earth is pointless.”
That thought crosses most people’s mind every night before they fell asleep.
One day while reading sudden quotes i came across this quote, which find so relevant according to the today’s scenario that is “Your outlook on life is a direct reflection on how much you like yourself.” – Lululemon
Mostly people graduates from high school but has no idea about what they are going to do with their life. Their future plans suddenly falls and scatter into pieces and everyone one starts encouraging them to accomplish things that had not yet accomplished.
Most of the people are not were they should be in life. Everyone had expectations that aren’t met. People become too focused on becoming a version that other people wanted. Then people starts comparing ourself to others who has particularly reached to next level of their life in position.
Usually people are relentlessly questioned and judged for their slower progression in life, that convinces people that no one supports or believe them. People Suddenly thinks why do they exist if they was getting nowhere and disappointing everyone. This lead them to blame everyone and even themselves for the state of misery they had fallen into.
Sometimes self esteem began to suffer and this lead them to feel inferior from everyone and even hate themselves. People still sometimes do not known what they wanted to do with their life and than they don’t even care.
But lot of self insults later make people to decide something great such as block out the negativity from themselves and other people. Once people breakout the negativity, than they talk to their inner self and that makes them to think about their passion. This makes them realise that they are trying to pursue other paths because that will be accepted by the people. People sometimes are also afraid that if they let their imagination rise to all the other possibilities, others would tell them to be realistic.
The bottom line is that people become demotivated with this fear of not being accepted. People usually are afraid to be different or pursue what truly makes them happy.
The fact is that we can’t please everyone anyway, so conforming to the expectation of other people will definitely not lead to contentment.
Real happiness comes from being content with and proud of yourself.
People learns a few things about choosing the right path for themselves, focusing on what will make them happy. So If you’ve been struggling to make that choice, there is some recommendation
Drop your worries.
Worry puts a burden on your mind, body, and spirit. They can keep you up all night if you let them. Find comfort in the fact that everything happens for a reason and everything will fall into place at the right time.
By constantly bashing yourself and worrying about every single thing that happens to you, you’re missing out on happiness that you could’ve had all along.
Do not try to please or impress anyone but yourself.
The need to impress, please, and compare ourselves to other people all the time is one of the most common causes of self-loathing. As long as you’re trying to please other people and live up to their expectations, you will not be pleasing yourself.
Happiness comes from feeling content with your own life and goals.
Embrace your unique qualities and talents.
Everyone is different. Figure out what you’re good at and what sets you apart from everyone else. Your mission is to create a reason for being in that position.
When you start to figure out what you want in life, there will be obstacles. Do not let anyone or anything discourage you from continuing on. Believe in yourself and believe in your decisions.
Stay positive and keep moving forward.
Take your time.
Life does not come with a rulebook or deadlines for accomplishing certain things. People do assume to think what they needed to be at the same level as everyone else age but life is not a race or a contest.
Have faith in the fact that you are exactly where you need to be at this very moment in time and as long as you’re content, don’t let anyone convince you that you’re on a wrong path.You be the judge of what you want to change in your life and then do it for you.
Surround yourself with positivity a major key towards success
Try to limit the amount of time you spend with people who nay-say, judge, or ridicule. Choose to completely surround yourself with positive, inspiring influences. You will feel much happier and better about yourself if you do.
Once you start to accept and love yourself and your desired path, the obstacles will clear and you will live life easy again. Be kind to yourself and life will be a whole lot brighter.