We hear stories that men and boys are less concerned with emotions. In other words, most men often gossip that they like to get physical with opposite gender and if they have a partner even before marriage, they would not mind making sexual relations. I totally endorse liberal sexual relations and premarital sex. The sexual relations I support are the one – with the consent and willingness of the other partner.
Why such a background – every one knows this. We would imagine that a decade ago, there was a possibility that couples might not establish physical relations inspire of dating each other.
I would like to bring attention to this guy who dated a girl and still they were together without the insistence from the guy to get intimate. It surprises me more because they both knew that they won’t get married, giving the guy another reason to enjoy physically with his girl friend.
I do not often hear stories like this where the guy is with the girl for emotional reasons, without physical desires. In this story, the guy could date any girl of his choice , but he dated a girl with whom his frequency matched. The girl during the later stage of their relationship became more keen of making physical relations with him. This is one of the rare stories of 2018-19 where girl had to convince or may be pressurized the guy to get physical with her.
I really get awestruck by this guy and his upbringing whereby he is an example for other guys to value a relationship , even beyond physical aspect. The point of sharing this story is not that the couples who enjoy physical relationship are doing anything wrong. The story only brings a perspective that such man do exist even today. It brings hope of goodness and positivity in a society where forced sex , sex outside marriage and hook-ups are common.