You need to be someone who’s a known person in the outer world and then you shall be responded to.
You need to have heavy bank balance and then you shall be responded to.
You need to be of some benefit to the other person, especially for a benefit they are looking for, from you, then definitely you shall be responded to; acknowledged; listened; complimented esp. on social media; adulated and various other synonymous acts.
Contrarily, if you still do not fall in either of the above category, favorable chances for how you hope things to happen are no more than least.
While this complete behavior could be said in one word, ie. selfish, it has another perspective to it.
You have to go through every single step of struggle, hard work and all sorts of experience, all alone, to achieve and get there where you aspire to be and then gradually start to view a hazy picture of what I mentioned above.
What then shall be interesting and positive to see is if you ladder up that certain pedestal and are still humble enough to recognize a new person standing exactly where you used to be at some point. Important shall be that you keep reminding yourself where you came from and still stand grounded.
That, for me, shall be success in its real sense.