As someone who wants to make a change on a social platform, life has always presented challenges, even as a child. This affected my behaviour too, which was rather disturbing .
In every sector, in my experience, women try to undermine other women. I think that women’s growth in the professional world is not taking a toll when compared to men, because we have the zest for work, but at the same time the competitiveness, inferiority complex, comparisons with men are exhausting.
While I was pursuing my MBBS it was difficult to know why some of my close allies transformed into nasty foes, however it became a lesson for me. I know that every woman is facing these challenges, but they may not be aware of them. Female competitiveness has no age limit. Yet, I feel that limiting someone’s growth limits one’s own growth.
We are not competing with other women, but with ourselves, which leads to inhibition of growth and success in every area of the work sector.
If we start looking at other women with a different pair of glasses, and consider them the same as us, then perhaps we can be prettier, happier and a healthy work place environment might emerge in a healthy society.
Thus, if we focus on being the dominant force in our own universe rather than invading into that of others, we all win.