They met
(Awwww)
Fell in love
(Awwww)
Late night calls
(Awwww)
Dates
(Awwww)
Hugs
(Ummm)
Kisses
(Whaaaaaat)
And that!
(Ground shattered! World ended!)
A girl having sex before marriage!?! Who does that! It’s a sin! Like men would’ve had it with each other otherwise? Hmm ?
Why take virginity so seriously? Something you should gift your husband. Like really? I thought there were better things to offer like love and care! Marriage is what we created whereas sex is natural. Aren’t we all a product of it? Then why is it that she has to be shameful about making love with the guy she actually loved ?
I often hear stories about girls suffering from things like blackmailing by their so-called boyfriends. Who is to be blamed? Not just the guy but us! Instead of providing her with support and help the society judges, family blames and friends taunt. The whole bandwagon of victimizing the victim. While the guy on the other side feels powerful on doing something that you should actually call as a “sin”. The thing that he brags about is what she has to hide. And you talk of equality? Of course it cannot be stressed enough that she has to be careful but then who are we to set the rules? Can anyone give her the surety that if she marries as a virgin, her life would be a cakewalk? Things like marital rape would have never existed, if life was this certain.