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Dear Brothers, It’s OK..

Dear Brothers,

It’s okay if you want to cry or get emotional, you are a man not a robot!

It’s okay if you want to own items in pink, a colour is a colour, it knows no gender!

It’s okay if you want to play with dolls or kitchen sets and not with cars and cannons, games don’t differentiate between genders!

It’s okay if you don’t have a beard because those who have are no different!

It’s okay if you want to have long hair, every length and style is perfect!

It’s okay if you are not muscular, every physique has its own charm!

It’s okay if you want to pamper yourself, everybody has a right to make themselves feel good!

It’s okay if you are younger than your partner; love spots compatibility, not age, it requires faith, not the birth date of your mate!

It’s okay if your salary is less than your wife’s or if you earn nothing at all; it requires money, not “masculine money” to run the house!

It’s okay if you are still a virgin, this isn’t a taboo but a choice!

It’s okay if you want to spend your life with just one girl, don’t be ashamed of it, but be proud!

It’s okay if you have moved on after a toxic relationship, that doesn’t make you a casanova or pathetic!

It’s okay if you shout at a girl or argue with her, provided that there’s a line which you haven’t crossed!

It’s okay if you don’t want to disrespect a girl in an unhealthy “boys talk”, you chose to be not just a man, but a gentleman!

It’s okay if you want to go shopping with your parents, they know your style and taste ever since you were born, aren’t they your best companions?

It’s okay if you want to wear palazzos or skirts or floral prints, clothes are meant to cover the body, not the identity!

It’s okay if you want to be a non-alcoholic or a non-smoker, you didn’t lose yourself to peer pressure!

It’s okay if you are attracted towards a man, that doesn’t make you less of a man!

It’s NOT okay that presumption of innocence lies on a girl’ side every time, remember that every girl is not a victim and every boy is not a predator!

We need to take things lightly and not create stereotypes because our actions become equal and opposite reactions, keep that in mind!

The society will stigmatize you but, don’t worry, you’ll always have a back of few sane minds!

Featured Image shows “Shinhwa” (a K-pop band)

Source-https://weheartit.com/articles/296049728-top-10-senior-kpop-boy-groups

 

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