We come across two kinds of people, one, who let you down, and another, who has your back during both failure and success. The same thing happens in various situations in our life. We should be able to distinguish between the two. The day we are able to do this we would be able to judge what is right and what is wrong for ourselves. It is crucial that we are able to see both sides of a coin in life.
When life challenges you, take it. Be ready to face whatever comes your way. The result might be good or bad, so be prepared for both. If it turns out well, then there’s no point discussing, but if it turns out bad, then it’s no use worrying, one has to just accept it and move on. The best way to make misfortunes less worrying and stressful is to think of the worst possible thing that can happen to one and then analyse, question yourself: does any hope still linger in you? Is there any chance for things to get better? Can you could survive that situation? Can you start over?
If you are able to find answers in your soul, then you will be ready to face any situation, and more importantly, you will be knowing what to do, how to react, if things take a turn for the worse. In this way, you can calm yourself and handle the situation capably.
Always remember, everything is already destined to happen, you cannot do anything except accept it. Staying positive can make you ready to face life.