How Dare You Malign The Ideals Of Democracy I Inherited From Nobler Men Than You?

When They Grounded Us With An Internet Block

As a 20-year living in a 21st-century democracy, there is nothing more chilling than waking up to the news, that the most basic civil liberties, that I feel I am entitled to, are suddenly at stake and are being snatched away from me with no explanation. But you’ll try to tell us that the explanation is obvious, won’t you? The protests have reached a point of explosion, you tell me. This is for my own good.

How do I trust you now to decide what is good for me, when you wouldn’t even hear what I have to say? You glorified us as “educated citizens of this country”, you promised us help and support, you swore to protect us. Yet, today, you have reduced us to nothing more than a bunch of rebellious children making a “ruckus” on the streets of our home. You have grounded us without discussion or letting us have our say, by shutting off our internet, and denying us the right to even stand together on those streets, and refusing to let us question your authority. You have banished us to our rooms, forcing us into silence and obedience.

Students across India protest against the Citizenship Amendment Act. Many faced police brutality.

Yet, you have not stopped there. Some of us you felt the need to take us with you, set an example. How weak and baseless is your authority if you cannot allow it to be questioned by us? We put you on that pedestal you call power and you are answerable to us. To us, the same children that you are forcing into bone-chilling, horrifying submission.

We have been neglectful siblings, in not understanding the pain of silence, that you have crushed our Kashmiri brothers and sisters under, for so many days. We were indignant before because we did not understand. We felt safe behind our curtain of privilege, simply debating it as if it were an impersonal issue. Thank you for shaking us awake by meting out the same unjust treatment to us. We have heard the deafening silence now and although we only heard it for a few hours, we did feel that fear of it being an indefinite sentence.

How dare you treat us like irrational teenagers after using us to get where you are? How dare you use that power against us when we’re the ones who trusted you with it? How dare you malign the ideals of the democracy I inherited from nobler men than you?

And it’s not just about us children anymore, is it? Learned men with logical arguments terrify you as much as we do. You shut them up, you take them away and you do not allow us to have their support. You can make excuses about “children” not knowing what’s good for them and what’s not. But what is your excuse for dismissing other men who may know more than you? How did you decide you are above all reason and all argument?

I think what you must understand, first of all, is that we might be children but we are not your children. We are citizens of this country – even though you might ask us to prove that we are – and we have our own minds with our own thoughts. We might not always be right but neither are you, I’m sure. And when we ask you a question, you ANSWER us, not snip-snap our vocal cords.

In the big dysfunctional family that this democracy has turned into, I know there are some of us that still don’t care. Those that you are using to infantilise us, dissenters, even more. Some of them are “loyal supporters” and some of them are “apolitical netizens”. So many are simply the privileged and the fortunate, who do not care about what does not affect them. But I bet, even within that bubble they call privilege, they must have felt at least a moment of doubt today when they could not share their “unopinionated” opinions on WhatsApp, Instagram or Facebook. At least, I hope that they did.

I hoped they dared ask themselves questions, not just the ones we are begging them to ask about democracy, equality, and humanity, but the bigger, more terrifying question that none of us really want an answer for.

What horrifying monstrosity have you become and what in India’s name are you turning us into?

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Now as an MH Fellow with YKA, she’s expanding her impressive scope of work further by launching a campaign to facilitate the process of ensuring better menstrual health and SRH services for women residing in correctional homes in West Bengal. The campaign will entail an independent study to take stalk of the present conditions of MHM in correctional homes across the state and use its findings to build public support and political will to take the necessary action.

Saurabh has been associated with YKA as a user and has consistently been writing on the issue MHM and its intersectionality with other issues in the society. Now as an MHM Fellow with YKA, he’s launched the Right to Period campaign, which aims to ensure proper execution of MHM guidelines in Delhi’s schools.

The long-term aim of the campaign is to develop an open culture where menstruation is not treated as a taboo. The campaign also seeks to hold the schools accountable for their responsibilities as an important component in the implementation of MHM policies by making adequate sanitation infrastructure and knowledge of MHM available in school premises.

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Harshita is a psychologist and works to support people with mental health issues, particularly adolescents who are survivors of violence. Associated with the Azadi Foundation in UP, Harshita became an MHM Fellow with YKA, with the aim of promoting better menstrual health.

Her campaign #MeriMarzi aims to promote menstrual health and wellness, hygiene and facilities for female sex workers in UP. She says, “Knowledge about natural body processes is a very basic human right. And for individuals whose occupation is providing sexual services, it becomes even more important.”

Meri Marzi aims to ensure sensitised, non-discriminatory health workers for the needs of female sex workers in the Suraksha Clinics under the UPSACS (Uttar Pradesh State AIDS Control Society) program by creating more dialogues and garnering public support for the cause of sex workers’ menstrual rights. The campaign will also ensure interventions with sex workers to clear misconceptions around overall hygiene management to ensure that results flow both ways.

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With YKA MHM Fellow Vineet, Sabna launched Menstratalk, a campaign that aims to put an end to period poverty and smash menstrual taboos in society. As a start, the campaign aims to begin conversations on menstrual health with five hundred adolescents and youth in Delhi through offline platforms, and through this community mobilise support to create Period Friendly Institutions out of educational institutes in the city.

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A student from Delhi School of Social work, Vineet is a part of Project Sakhi Saheli, an initiative by the students of Delhi school of Social Work to create awareness on Menstrual Health and combat Period Poverty. Along with MHM Action Fellow Sabna, Vineet launched Menstratalk, a campaign that aims to put an end to period poverty and smash menstrual taboos in society.

As a start, the campaign aims to begin conversations on menstrual health with five hundred adolescents and youth in Delhi through offline platforms, and through this community mobilise support to create Period Friendly Institutions out of educational institutes in the city.

Find out more about the campaign here.

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She says, “Bihar is ranked the lowest in India’s SDG Index 2019 for India. Hygienic and comfortable menstruation is a basic human right and sustainable development cannot be ensured if menstruators are deprived of their basic rights.” Project अल्हड़ (Alharh) aims to create a robust sensitised community in Bhagalpur to collectively spread awareness, break the taboo, debunk myths and initiate fearless conversations around menstruation. The campaign aims to reach at least 6000 adolescent girls from government and private schools in Baghalpur district in 2020.

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A psychologist and co-founder of a mental health NGO called Customize Cognition, Ritika forayed into the space of menstrual health and hygiene, sexual and reproductive healthcare and rights and gender equality as an MHM Fellow with YKA. She says, “The experience of working on MHM/SRHR and gender equality has been an enriching and eye-opening experience. I have learned what’s beneath the surface of the issue, be it awareness, lack of resources or disregard for trans men, who also menstruate.”

The Transmen-ses campaign aims to tackle the issue of silence and disregard for trans men’s menstruation needs, by mobilising gender sensitive health professionals and gender neutral restrooms in Lucknow.

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A Computer Science engineer by education, Nitisha started her career in the corporate sector, before realising she wanted to work in the development and social justice space. Since then, she has worked with Teach For India and Care India and is from the founding batch of Indian School of Development Management (ISDM), a one of its kind organisation creating leaders for the development sector through its experiential learning post graduate program.

As a Youth Ki Awaaz Menstrual Health Fellow, Nitisha has started Let’s Talk Period, a campaign to mobilise young people to switch to sustainable period products. She says, “80 lakh women in Delhi use non-biodegradable sanitary products, generate 3000 tonnes of menstrual waste, that takes 500-800 years to decompose; which in turn contributes to the health issues of all menstruators, increased burden of waste management on the city and harmful living environment for all citizens.

Let’s Talk Period aims to change this by

Find out more about her campaign here.

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A Gender Rights Activist working with the tribal and marginalized communities in india, Srilekha is a PhD scholar working on understanding body and sexuality among tribal girls, to fill the gaps in research around indigenous women and their stories. Srilekha has worked extensively at the grassroots level with community based organisations, through several advocacy initiatives around Gender, Mental Health, Menstrual Hygiene and Sexual and Reproductive Health Rights (SRHR) for the indigenous in Jharkhand, over the last 6 years.

Srilekha has also contributed to sustainable livelihood projects and legal aid programs for survivors of sex trafficking. She has been conducting research based programs on maternal health, mental health, gender based violence, sex and sexuality. Her interest lies in conducting workshops for young people on life skills, feminism, gender and sexuality, trauma, resilience and interpersonal relationships.

A Guwahati-based college student pursuing her Masters in Tata Institute of Social Sciences, Bidisha started the #BleedwithDignity campaign on the technology platform, demanding that the Government of Assam install
biodegradable sanitary pad vending machines in all government schools across the state. Her petition on has already gathered support from over 90000 people and continues to grow.

Bidisha was selected in’s flagship program ‘She Creates Change’ having run successful online advocacy
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