Do you spoil promises to yourself or neglect self-love and care? Is it so tough to put yourself first?
Don’t you think all these decades and years we never ever thought about ourselves but our work and others? We have been so busy with our own work life that we never thought to prioritize ourselves.
Well its 2020, its time to give yourself the most important gift ever: self-love and care. Self love forms the foundation of your single, most important relationship- that with yourself. The strength of all your other relationships is exactly equal to the strength of that foundation. We always crib about others not loving us but ever thought to love first you. Being in love is n0t always involving two people, it can be one self also.
To care for yourself is to be in amazement of the supernatural occurrence of your reality. It is to acknowledge yourself as you are -the “light” parts and the “dull”, the “great” and the “terrible”- while realizing that the real you is over the apparent dualities of the physical domain. It is to be eager to get as much as you are happy to give and do both similarly. It is all about knowing your qualities, your strength and your weaknesses at the same time and respecting them. It is about showing others how to treat you by giving them how you treat yourself. It is about being caring and loving to yourself. It is about how you feel about your mind, your soul, your body. It is tied in with realizing you are justified, despite all the trouble, not in view of what you have accomplished or what other think about you, but because love is your birthright.
Spend time with yourself. Give some space. Go on a holiday, cook food, watch movies, read books, start exploring your hobbies or do things that make you feel happy without knowing what other thinks. The day you start caring for yourself, the world will automatically accept you the way you are.