If They Fell In Love With A Person With Disability

To my dear society,

 

What if the fell in love with a person with a disability?

This is just a observation,

Maybe I did the same,

Once upon a time,

Glorified someone,

Who is in Love,

With the person with a disability,

I was at fault,

But now I understand,

How wrong was it,

We often do the same,

To someone who’s the better half of a differently-abled person

We don’t realize that

It’s their Right

To have a regular relationship

To have fights,

To get the time

To understand each other.

We don’t realize

That we are wrong on our part.

Why should we do that?

Everyone has some broken pieces

That can’t be glued.

Yes, we can see an overt disability

But do we know

What’s going on inside?

All we are looking to the abled-person to help a disabled person?

It’s a ‘sacrifice’ in the eyes of the society.

The abled-person becomes a Hero

In the eyes of the society.

But it can also go the other way.

The abled-person is often seen as a ‘victim’.

But all these are stereotypes

That society has made

The abled-person has to listen to

“Didn’t you find a better match?”

“There are a lot of girls in our society.

Why disabled?”

After everything,

If they still find way to each other,

That’s what Love is.

 

From

A woman breaking stereotypes,

Vinayana Khurana

Featured Image for representation only. Source: Margarita With A Straw.

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