You all may have heard the famous quote “Everything is fair in love and war”. I think this is the most misleading quote I have heard .
Why everything should made fair ? We live a society everyone has limits and we can’t intefere in someones’ personal space . And so called Romeos do anything for their Juliet etc without even asking wheather she is ready or not . For love both people should show consent but to make matter even worst our films also show such things like hero going behind heroine and some scenes are beyond imagination.
If everything is fair in love then Does attacking a girl with acid for rejecting proposal is fair ? And that girl goes through so many things in life atleast in one situation that acid attacker does not come to look at her and that attacker says I loved her more than my life.
If everything is fair in love then Is a boy living his pregnant girlfriend helpless fair? Imagine the situation of girl .The girl may leave the child in orphanage but what wrong did the child do to suffer as orphan through out life?
If everything is fair in love then A man having a wife and children leaves then and starts a new life with his lover and is this fair ? They will always be mocked by the society for their fathers’ misdeed.(For all ladies who have ruined someones’ May your soul never rest in peace )
If everything is fair in love then A man beats his wife daily is it fair ? Imagine the pain she is going through and what will be her situation.
Are films are also misleading us ? Ya tell me one film in which a handsome guy marries a poor below average girl . No right and in film we see hero going to heroines’ house distrubing her , etc and in films hero even does anything to win a girls’ heart and that typical romance. Oh ! God . The movies show scenes which are not even applicable to real life.
Nowdays , we see only a few movies give us a good message and other create a misleading thought about love and emotions. People see the movie and try to imitate in real life.
In the name of revenge they ruin a girls’ life.I think not everything is fair like you can do anything to attain love you should have decency.
For all the readers who are reading my article Love in film is suiting only in film and not in real life . We just can’t apply everything to real life. Love is about trust , care and loyality. Its not about sex or like that things. Our films are potraying love is a physical emotion and not a divine feeling . You may think I sound crazy but believe there are many people in name of love they do in human things.
And please support me and write stories you know about such inhuman activities happening in the name of love under the hashtag #NotEverythingIsFairInLove. And please you guys don’t do such inhuman activities.