It all started with a discussion with my relatives then a question pop ups in my mind that ” why can’t I dry my bras in open under the sun ?” Well , in our discussion I couldn’t get my answer that who started this hiding business for women undergarments . Why hide bra ? Is this a private part ? All this shaked up my mind and I took a step to not to hide my undergarments .
Women undergarments are not only a piece of cloth , they are not only object , they just give us life . I started observing things and movies too, when ever there was a intercourse or sexual scean the producers shows up the women’s undergarments in the end bras look like a material that attracts toward the sexual intercourse see how they humiliate our undergarments .
The day when I first heard BRA
I was in its standard 8th around age 15 where breast starts growing and need some toning and support . I heard my classmates are whispering something and they laugh aloud . I shouted “BRA” eagerly to know more what they are talking about but while I felt a bit embarrassed our school teacher secretly instructed us about bra and necessity to wear bra that creates a big confusion in my mind that why secretly she is teaching about bra and it’s necessity .
For a sake I forgot all these that happened in my school until my mum asked me to sirf my Bra and Panti to the corner unseen by anyone . I just asked her why they are in corner and other clothes are bathing sun ? but she mentioned ” do you think bras and panties are suitable to dry in between other clothes ?” That’s weird answer I got . So , I decided to look up on my neighbours that they also do the same on this happens only in my house .
I just started observing my neighborhood, especially ladies, how they dry their undergarments. One day at my friends home I see a lady who literally suffocates her undergarments by wrapping it with other clothes in the sun, but before that, she gives a careful, shameful look on all four sides as no one is allowed to watch her doing this, or else she would die of shame. I gather much data from other ladies on that aspect, all might have been shame on talking on their own undergarments. It was hard time and I took a major step.
It was a decision time On a sunny day, I let my bras under the sun, in the middle of ropes. After For few days I was taunted by some ladies for that, but soon mom realized, I don’t care what others think.
I mean how can you do this, who told to be ashamed. A woman feels no shame for drying undergarments on their balcony, open in the sun without feeling shame, few feel it’s an honour to dry their anamore bra. But when it comes to their own house, women would feel so embarrassed about it.
Since then, my undergarments have been drying in open place. Let me make it very clear; It’s not a symbol of shame It shows freedom with dignity, I encouraged teenagers in my neighborhood to do the same without shame.
Still , some of my neighborhood girls feel shame and their mothers gives odd look, for empowering their girls because according to them these stuffs are the parts to be shame on. But I know my undergarments matter