Before we go into the details, let us understand what marriage is. It is a bond between two different people, which makes even the most incompatible union a very compatible one. Does it make any sense?
I bet most of you are wondering how any incompatible union can turn compatible with a bond. If you are thinking about it in terms of physics or chemistry, then it is wrong. It may be true in some parts because feelings are hormones (chemistry), but I am not going to go into the physics part though.
Anyway, the bond we form is important, and the trust we build with one another is the component to build this bond stronger. They say it is every girl’s dream to get married. Being a girl, I know I wanted to get married too, but not to just any guy. I dreamed of getting married to a guy who will love me for who I am.
We cannot expect the person to be a saint or a Romeo. There are people who make it hell, but these things should not make us give up on the idea of marriage and should not make us give up on the idea of changing them or their lifestyle and make their life brighter. This may look like a piece of advice straight out of a daily drama, but who doesn’t have drama in their lives?
Getting married to the right person at the right time is important. Decisions made in haste may not always be good, and under pressure, we tend to lose our way of thinking. But we have a future ahead. I would say take your time, but make it in time because time is precious. A moment lost is lost forever, and when we do find the right person, we will want every moment with them.
And one last thing, nobody is born evil. It’s the situations and our company that makes us who we are. Being supportive and having trust, along with loads of love are the trio needed for a happy marriage.