hi everybody!!!!! Here i am..” Naanum ezhutha porenga” ..sorry to all those who dont understand my language..that was Tamil and yeah i am a Tamilian..i hope you all know where Tamilnadu is..if u dont know please do refer google maps!! ena google map poi sollathu” …????Google maps dont lie..?
So what am i going to write about????????
” Nattula neraya prechana irukunga..firstu namma prechanaeku varuvom”..
So yeah for all the non-tamilians ..”There are so many social issues to be addressed..to be written about..but lets skim through the pages of our personal quandery”..
Seringa..unga elarkum oru question.??.kekkalamaa???? Which means am i allowed to ask one question..just one question..to all of u???
So here it goes…
Are you happy???????
Sandhosama irukenglaaa????
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Eeeeeee…..
Yes..are u all happy???
If u know what happiness means..
I dont mean happiness to be those dates / romantic candle light dinners / cool boyfriends/ supercool girlfriends??/ bottles of wine???/ boxes of bucks. I mean not the mere release of serotonin or endorphins from ur brains!!
Do u really feel excitement , happiness and life gleaming through ur eyes when u wake up each day to see yet another day???
Simpleaa solnumna namma thalayoda padathla kekramaathri..neenga sirikringa but santhoshama irukeengala??
Is there joy and happiness behind that laughter of yours??
Sollungooo..?????
That kutty kutty sandhoshamana moments..that moment is gone right when the smallest details of life excited our whole being and gave us the joy and thrill to keep exploring through life..
Most of us might have gone through economical growth spurts in life..neverthless our happiness levels remained static..
What probably do u think might be the reason behind this stunted levels of happiness despite the social and economic growth spurts in our lives??
Social Media????????
Apdiyaa. ???
Yeah might be !!! To some degree..
And yeah enaku therium those “Gaandu moments”
2 Super Gaandu Moments..
1) Namma vela illama thindaadeetu irupom..anga facebook layum whatsapp la yum namma kooda irukravanga ellam velavaangi , promotion vaangi, foreign poyi,veedu vaangi, bmw car vaangi, ” ellathayim vaangunga daa but ithellam photo pottu endaa enga uyira vaangureengaaa.. ” that Marana gaandu moment..pichakaaran biriyaniya paakramaathri paakren da naanu.. moment..
Disclaimer 😕 Sathyama poraamailaan ilaenga..namma nilamai apdi???
2) Namma ” SINGLE ?♀️??” aa irupom..
Single na i mean without a true companion…
Note : People can still feel alone and single after getting married if they are deprived of emotional connections with their Partnerh..
?????vaanga nammala mukkavaasi per single thaann!!
Vishyathukku povom!!
Namma inga single aa irupom..anga oruthan apothaanga couple photos poduvaan..enamo ambigaavathy , amaraavathy , romeo juliet list la aduthu avan idam pidikka poramaathri..and our mind voices be like
“Dai enga irunthu da vareenga neenga elam..sollunga daa.ventha punla vela paaikreenga da..illatha vishyatha enda irukra maathri kaamchi emathreenga..
Love nu onnu illave illa da?????”
MARANA GAANDU MOMENT..
Do u think these gaandu moments are the reason behind our unhappiness or stunted levels of happiness???
Apdiya. may be oru 0.00005% irukalam.
But yeah such things form the pillars to the roof that accumulates negativity in our minds..negativity comes in bundles and bowls you down, spinning and tossing your thoughts making your moods fluctuate between a ray of hope and complete darkness finally pushing you down to the attic of ur mind where only darkness prevails..yes..ithuthaanga depression..
Depression..manaazhutham..why do u think its called mana azhutham. Because it literally weighs you down in life..
Freudian psychoanalytic theory argues that our psychological life is determined by our conscious and unsconscious life..
” Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low selfesteem, first make sure that you are not surrounded by assholes” – sathyama naan sollalanga..
Sigmund freud sollerkaru….
Nambunga
Neenga enna solreenga depression na enna ..ethunala intha manaazhutham varuthu??
Self esteem kuraipaadu na enna??
Naan avlova nalla illa
Naan colour aa illa
Naa ponnu..ponnuna ipditha irkanum ..
Naan olliya iruken..
Na gunda iruken..
Na padikala..
Enkitta avlova panam ila
Enkita velai illa..
Ithellatha vidavum innaiky romba athiham
Varra oru problem..
Enaku mudi ilaaa????manda sottai
Aaiduchu..??
These few phrases are more than enough to showcase your lack of selfesteem..
Correctaa???
But how do we casually come and fall into this pit of selfsympathy ..because we look at the other person standing with us at the same levels who is better appreciated , valued , respected , loved or pampered or acknowledged ..and overall validated while we are left behind without any of these..hmmm ????????kashtamathaan irukku..
And yeah we decide its because they look better , they know better , they live better that they are better validated ..yeah might be true to some extent. .?????
So the roots are simple….
Culprit : Society..
Society that gives standards and discriminates one to be lesser than the other…
“Society” …
Black sheep..ituthaanga namma depression ku ellam basic karanam…
Society na enna?????athaangaa..
“4 peru 4 vithama pesvaanga..” ..???
Antha 4 perum enkaila kedacha avlothaan?????
Society na enna..to be open..
We all make a society ..each one of us..seri epdinga society aa saripanrathu..
Adhu nadakkatha kariyam..first naama nammala saripannvom..
Oru magic try pannuvomaaa…ellarum..now sit back..relax , yes apdithaa
Take a deep breath, feel the fresh air?
Apdiye paduthu thoongungaa?
….will meet u all soon again..to be continued with the news of real magic..
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love u all..thank u?????