You must be wondering why have I written this as my title?
Yes, I know because this is something we all are craving.
Whether it’s me or you and I know you must be working to get the same.
Have you ever thought about the irony in this word?
Everyone runs behind it from a poor person to a rich one.
What does it take to become successful?
Must be thinking that Hardwork and Determination would make it. Right?
But you must have seen people who work hard every day and night, every moment in their life is precious but still when the result comes they fail for the first time and they can not flourish more
Even I have seen some of them.
And I gave a thought about it.
Why is it actually happening?
And I came to the conclusion that.
Ohh! Why a conclusion now?
Lemme share a real life incident with you.
One of my friends who used to work so hard every moment in order to clear NEET scored 450 in NEET which means she will have to go for another attempt in order to get a good college.
She was so disappointed with her result. She couldn’t sleep at night, she wouldn’t talk to anyone, she didn’t eat anything. She just felt that she’s not made for it.
I decided to meet her.
I was just about to step inside and suddenly, I could hear her parents saying something and I stopped myself and stood there and what they said was really enthralling!
Her father said, “No matter how many times you get success, learn to deal with failure”.
Failures are important in life but managing them and that moment’s feelings is most important. And I strongly feel the same.
While working, we often imagine ourselves standing on the stage and holding a trophy in our hands. It’s good to be positive but it’s really good to prepare yourself beforehand for the negative effects too which come as hurdles in our journey of success.
And I am not denying the fact that hardwork and determination hold a place in success but failures also do. Most importantly, we must make ourselves comfortable with failures and learning from them.
Most of the people are becoming unsuccessful nowadays due to lack of ability to deal with them. We must learn from them instead of stopping ourselves the next moment to work for it.
Come on, it’s your dream, you have to live it. So keep learning from failure and start working for success.