A question that compels me to bend my knees into a spiral of nail-biting insomnia and confusion. And that question is: how do I know for sure if this is the right dream, career, choice or partner for me. To have knowledge about whether we are on the right path or not is not as hard as we think. One thing with which we bother ourselves is confusing ourselves with various tracks. To identify whether you are on the right path or not, here are a few clues.
If you are on the right path, then you must have these qualities in your personality. The duties or tasks you are performing should not cause discomfort or distress in your daily life. Secondly, you must not be uttering lines for which you have to later apologise. Thirdly, the word ‘compromise’ should be excluded from your dictionary. If you are not doing compromises on the big deals of your life, it means you are on the right path.
Fourthly, if you are on the right path, then it is obligatory to know your worth. Your knowledge-worth means that one must have their own opinions and thought to place it in front of others or convince them. One must have enough power to deal with everyday affairs in a better way.
The fifth one through which you can identify whether you are on the right path or not is your confidence. One must be confident about their choices in life. This will help any individual to live their life according to rules and regulations set by them according to their own mentality and feasibility.
These five signs work as a scale of measurement to know whether you are on the right path or the wrong one. If you are lacking in these above-mentioned signs, it means you are on the wrong path that will never suit your personality.
Here, I have a few other signs through which you can conclude whether you are on the wrong track. If you identify with these five signs in your everyday life, it means that you are on the wrong track of your life.
Firstly, the environment in which you are surviving is costing you and your power. Secondly, you feel drained or numb when you leave, with no positive energy and courage. It means you are drained because of struggling on the wrong path.
Thirdly, the feeling of losing yourself. It means when you feel that you are useless, you are losing all your strengths, you are becoming aimless it means you are losing your worth.
Fourthly, betraying yourself is a common notion to know whether you are on the right path in life or not. Betraying yourself here means if you feel sometimes “I can’t help feeling like I lost myself”, then it directly goes to the point that you have definitely betrayed yourself in some direction.
If I talk about a compromise, then I can say reliably that compromise is not a betrayal. Compromise is something when an individual accepts on their behalf and willingly says, “Alright I can give here.” While making a compromise at a stage where you feel depleted or drained means your compromise will lead to your betrayal.
Your whole life depends upon those choices that you choose for yourself. Mainly, people have the spirit to make choices but they do not have enough courage to apply these choices in their daily life. Sometimes, an individual feels so uncomfortable at a workplace and wants to take big initiatives but their inner self never allows them to do that.
That is actually betrayal and the other category of people who remains in touch with their inner self and their inner self guides them in a better way to tackle the curve balls that they are facing since long ago. They take big initiatives, they quit those jobs that seem unmatchable to them, their mentality, or we can say to their personality. They end those relationships that do not seem fulfilling to them. They always make tough choices because they know that only by making tough choices they will conquer the world and meet their dreams.
Every small right action must be regarded as a massive billboard created for the universe that says “I am ready now I believe”. Remaining tuned in and assured with what is true for you will create quantum shifts in your reality, your relationship, your confidence and your field. One must not bother themselves with seeking out “the right path”.
Some tips that can assess you to choose or to adopt the right path. The first and most common thing you need to correct by yourself is to stop self-attack. If you start to bring yourself down just because first you adopted the wrong path, it will prove to be unproductive. This phenomenon happens to everyone, so stop degrading yourself first.
Change can be initiated just by one step, you cannot bring any change until you take some mini-steps. For instance, if you were trying to lose weight, a tiny step, you first adopt is a selection of whole-grain bread instead of white bread. Cutting down on fats or sweets can also be regarded as a great first-step to make any change in your physical appearance. If you are looking for a special someone, join an online dating site. Don’t get confused about writing your profile or going on dates. Your first step is joining. After joining, proceed with the further process.
Career-wise, spend 20 minutes refreshing your resume. Tiny achievable goals will help you to take you to your ultimate destination. Break down your big goals into a series of little steps and try to fulfil each of them. For example, when you wake up in the morning, plan how you will spend your day. Practising exercise daily will help you to stay healthy and active. Spend some time at your workplace trying to explore something new every day. This will keep you updated you will stay in touch with new phenomena occurring around you.
It may seem counterproductive to relax more. But when you relax more, you remain more enthusiastic and feel more energetic. Relaxing more time will give you the power to take big initiatives. Make a schedule for the day. Divide your whole day activities into tiny goals and try to fulfil these goals sincerely.
When you work wholeheartedly and sincerely, results seem more positive and productive. So, to become successful in your life, it is obligatory for every individual willing to become more intelligent to take a healthy nap and plan their day according to activities while leaving the bed.
The next factor is quite common nowadays. Most people easily get distracted from their goals due to criticism by others. So, if you are facing the same problem as someone else, you get discouraged easily by a third person’s criticism. In that case, you need to select your best mentor who can keep you courageous and ambitious. Many people leave their goals unfulfilled just because they care about the notions and judgments implemented by others.
They think that the opinion others have of them is the final option to choose or follow. When you believe others more than yourself, it means you are hurting your inner self. You are disvaluing your own opinions. And that is a great hindrance in your way of success.
Similarly, if you are looking for a better life partner, you must invest your time in them. This will help you to know about the good and bad habits of each other. When you invest your time, you share your views with each other. Then, ambiguities between the two individuals who are going to start their new life will vanish. They will become more confident and clear about each other.
Accomplishing mini goals in a week, month or year keeps one motivated. You get more confident after completing any goal. You become more ambitious and begin to chase your dreams. These are some key factors using which you can know whether you are on the right path or wrong. If you have dreams and desires to fulfil, then must set some goals and invest your time in them.
Try to figure out those drawbacks that are pushing you back again and again. And try to cope with these drawbacks. So would you apply these strategies to put yourself on the right track?