While we are witnessing a new world shaping up right in front of our eyes, the instinct to fiercely hold on to the conventions can’t be undermined. Being habituated since the beginning of our human memory to go out in the world and socialise, it’s going to take some time to get used to this new normal.
Juggling in this scenario and adhering to normalcy is a bit daunting for almost all of us. While a whole lot of us are overwhelmed and distressed, there are some who have taken things in their stride.
The emotions surrounding being a parent are simply too overwhelming. One changes overnight from being a frivolous nonsensical individual to a fierce protector.
Parents have assumed varied new roles. Their significant presence in the lives of their children has never been so important. Apart from being the primary caregiver, they are also the primary educators and playmates. The constant assistance that is required to assist the children with their online classes especially in the case of young children is very crucial.
One is in a constant dilemma as to whether to let the little ones out or let them be indoors a little more until all of this is over. Limiting screen time or educating through the medium of screens and gadgets.
And then there are other things that go on in the background. To name a few, there is work from home, limited domestic help and all the other daily chores like washing, cleaning, cooking and laundry that happen in every household.
While one can overlook the quality of input bestowed to all the other chores, there is no way an individual can ignore the call of adherence to their parental duties, unless of course there are circumstances more pressing.
As a parent, you will always be judged. Your children reflect your state of mind, moods, indulgence, angst and anxieties. Fret not. Let’s not get overwhelmed by this situation. Let’s make a mark in their lives and prove to be the earnest caregivers that we have always aspired to be.