By Agents Of Ishq
July 13 2022
About six months ago, my mother called me on the phone, and said, “mujhe blue film dekhni hai (I want to watch a blue film). “Wow,” I remember thinking, that term still exists.
I find it interesting to think about my mother because we are supposed to be a sex-positive generation and our parents were from a generation which did not talk about sex.
After someone in my family got married, she asked her, “Kya tum satisfied ho? (Are you satisfied?)” to ask if they had sex on the suhaag raat.
So much of our understanding of sex comes from porn (and we watch crazy, random things), and envisioning our siblings or parents doing stuff like that is weird.
When I had the porn conversation with my mother, and I gave her the link to watch porn, she asked me, “How do you know all this?” I remember being very uncomfortable
There is a need to see the sex positivity of previous generations, as well as perhaps our lack of it. Because as sex-positive we might think we are, when it comes to parents, we still seem to be subject to our conditioning.